Let me be honest with you today.
There’s a quiet war being waged against your motherhood. In fact, it always existed in recent decades.
The world wants you to think that your mothering journey is less than.
That there’s something else out there more important, more valuable, more “worthy” of your time, your ambition, your energy.
You know why?
Because if you really knew what motherhood was…
If you really saw the golden state you're in right now…
You would become a force that no one could stop.
They’d rather keep you stuck in survival mode.
Chasing productivity.
Scrolling for meaning.
Measuring your worth against everything but the sacred space you’ve been called to lead in.
But I refuse to believe the lie.
Not in my bones and not in my soul.
Motherhood didn’t break me. It built me.
In a short, intense, breathtaking stretch of time
I became more woman, more servant to God, more soul than I ever was before.
No retreat did that.
No masterclass.
No career milestone.
No title on a name badge.
It was the sleepless nights.
The du‘as made with tired lips.
The moments of complete invisibility that forced me to become visible to myself.
And I want you to hear this:
There is no other human experience that will demand your growth like motherhood.
No other experience that will give you so many chances to course-correct, to rise again, to be loved with all your flaws, to be seen as perfect, to face your ego, and still be wrapped in mercy.
But here's the hidden trick
The less you think of it, the less you’ll be in it.
And that’s the goal, isn’t it?
To make you miss the moment.
To keep you thinking, “This is just a phase I need to get through quickly.”
So you don’t see it for what it truly is:
A divine assignment that will quantum-leap your life if you allow it.
To rise up in it.
To start showing up to motherhood like it’s the sacred ground where legacies are built and generations are transformed.
Because it is.
And when you do?
You’ll unlock something no one can manufacture or teach:
A mother aligned with her Creator, anchored in her values, raising souls that will outlive her and carry her light forward.
That’s not small work.
That’s legacy work.
It will not be easy all the time.
You are in the midst of the most profound transformation a woman can ever undergo.
Embrace it. Embody it. Elevate through it.
This is your golden state and you were made for it.
And if you want to do it together, join me here.
Until next time, Take care
Assalamu Alekum.